How important is it to understand your inner monologues?
How do we know what voice to listen to insider head and deciphering if it is the ego mind or our intuition and higher self. If we choose to voice the ego mind we will notice that people will be in resistance to us and that things might not flow with grace and ease. When we speak from our higher mind people tend to resonate with what were saying instead of resisting and we will be co-creating with the universe instead of fighting against it.
When we voice what our ego mind is telling us it could come from a place of needing to be polite or maybe be a good girl because of our old beliefs or a triggered state that just needs to be right. It is so important to understand our inner monologues and where they’re coming from.
We do not want to act out of our lower self and create a mess. If we don’t know when we are acting out of our lower self we will notice that our life isn’t in the flow and maybe a little chaotic. In all of my retreats, the mother-daughter retreat, the couple’s retreat and the individual intensive retreat are designed to help you recognize your lower and higher self so that you can live in a higher state of consciousness.
If we want to get our needs met, our communication needs to be clearly conversed through our higher mind to our outer voice. Communication can be tricky because we are dealing with others wounded self and most people communicate through that part of themselves. So if you are communicating through your lower self and they are communicating through their lower yourself you can see why communication would be a bit messy.
When we communicate through a higher place in us to get our desires and needs taken care of in the world outside of us we will also feel more balanced. It is always an upset when we communicate through a lower place in us and it activates a whole new set of beliefs that are wrapped up in guilt and shame.
If you don’t know where you are communicating from I suggest you look at my mentoring program or my retreats so that you can be clear about communicating and get your needs met.
If you are looking for support around loving yourself and others, check out my retreats and mentoring. The individual intensive, the couples retreat, or the mother-daughter retreat, you will learn about yourself and how to clean up your past so you can move through this life with love and passion.