Why would you use your mother daughter relationship to grow?
The mother-daughter relationship is our biggest opportunity for waking up and growing. We have two relationships in our life for optimum growth possibilities; the first one is the mother-daughter relationship and the second one is with our primary partner. Both of these relationships offer the greatest chance for us to break old patterns and shift.
When I work with couples and mother daughters, the retreats are so profound. When two people understand the work and do it together the transformations are epic. When they recognize what their wounding is, and how they projected onto each other, it helps them shift more rapidly. When both parties are practicing the work together they are actually able to be clearer because the other person is holding them accountable. It is hard to bust ourselves when we are acting out of our old beliefs, so when we have a partner that is able to see our actions and help us see it with love, the possibility for change is way more probable.
Quite often when I work with individuals their partners see a significant change in them so they end up coming to me in a couples retreat because the husband wants to have them shifts himself. The mother-daughter retreats help both the mother and daughter relate to each other in a completely different way. Instead of relating through their wounded inner child they are connecting with each other through their higher more mature self.
I have seen many mother-daughters’ come to me with arms folded, not speaking to each other and leave holding each other and smiling. It truly is a beautiful process to be a part of.
We all have wounding and old beliefs. If we do not do the healing of these inner child wounds, we will act out of them. The biggest places they show up are in our most important relationships. Looking at your triggers and exploring your limiting beliefs with your important relationships or any situation is the greatest opportunity for growth.
If you are looking to grow through your relationships in your life, check out my retreats and mentoring. The individual intensive, the couples retreat, or the mother-daughter retreat, you will learn about yourself and how to clean up your past so you can move through this life with love and passion.
If you are interested in my Individual Retreat, Adult Mother Daughter Retreat or a Couples Retreat or Mentoring so you can look at the things that aren’t working in your life and shift them, Click HERE to schedule your free consult. Or call me at 928-300-0447.
Also check out what clients are saying about me in their Testimonials!
“As soon as we began I knew this was the direction I was wanting to go. I felt Debra was spot on with where the feelings are coming from and truly gifted me with the tools to care for those feelings. She did such a great job at turning an ugly/hurt filled situation into a meaningful, purposeful, beautiful experience. I love the way I see and feel about myself, my mom and our relationship… Not only with each other, but with every body else in life. I can’t thank you enough, Debra. You are such a gift! I feel blessed to share in this experience.
-With love, Jennifer (Daughter)
Debra, thank you so much for helping me to connect with my daughter and myself. I’m very glad that I chose you in this reconnecting process!”
-Sincerely, Julia (Mom)